2025-05-13

Why I Finally Built a Home-Server (and Why You Might, Too)

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Why I Finally Built a Home-Server (and Why You Might, Too)

Why I Finally Built a Home-Server (and Why You Might, Too)

Table of Contents

1 · Spark of the idea

I’d wanted a homelab ever since YouTube kept recommending slick r/selfhosted tours, but three things held me back:

  • Public internet – Indonesian ISPs love CG-NAT and blocked ports.
  • Electricity – horror stories of spinning-rust NAS draining wallets.
  • Hardware – I had nothing rack-mountable, and Raspberry Pis were scarce.

Then I remembered a dusty laptop with a cracked screen. A quick RAM+SSD upgrade later, I had a head-start test box. Suddenly cloud fees—paid monthly for sluggish, under-specced VMs—felt silly next to a machine I already owned.


2 · What I actually needed

  • Back-ups & storage – cloud storage caps vanish fast on a student budget.
  • Home-automation hub – Grafana dashboards for household power, Home-Assistant controlling a few relays.
  • Unlimited sandbox – Docker, Kubernetes, n8n, CI jobs… things the cloud throttled.
  • Total control – root access for everything and freedom to break stuff while learning.

3 · Hardware: from laptop to lean mini-PC

ComponentReason
Intel i5-10400 mini-PCBetter thermals & power draw than the battered laptop.
32 GB RAM + 1 TB NVMeLeaves headroom for VMs and ZFS cache.
DIY UPS (car-battery mod)~8 hours uptime during PLN outages.
MikroTik routerVLANs + fail-over WAN + easy QoS.

Small footprint, low noise, ≈50–100 k IDR/month in electricity—acceptable for a 24/7 box.


4 · Network hurdles (and work-arounds)

  • Tailscale → instant mesh VPN for remote SSH without port-forwarding.
  • Cloudflare Tunnel → publish only the services that must be public.
  • Warp fallback → bypass the odd ISP block while keeping most traffic private.

5 · Software stack

  • Proxmox VE as the base layer (web UI beats endless virsh commands).
  • Docker & k3s inside VMs for “I know it’s overkill, but it’s just R&D”.
  • Daily drivers: PostgreSQL, n8n, Pi-hole, Nextcloud, MinIO, Redis, Jenkins, OpenWebUI, Grafana + Prometheus, Nginx-Proxy-Manager, Uptime-Kuma, even a Minecraft server for weekend nostalgia.

Monitoring first—because what you can’t see will eventually bite you.


6 · Wins & headaches

Best moments

  • First Proxmox install booting flawlessly on that old laptop.
  • Seeing Grafana light up with real-time power draw from my ESP32 + PZEM004T.
  • Dropping a brand-new VM in 60 s instead of opening a credit-card form.

Biggest challenges

  • ISP quirks: CG-NAT punched by Tailscale, selective port blocks dodged with Warp.
  • Network routing rabbit holes—double-NAT, split DNS, SSL for internal hostnames.
  • Keeping cool literally and financially; undervolting and shutting down idle VMs became routine.

7 · Costs & efficiency

Cloud invoice: ₿$$$ for sluggish VMs.
Home-server power: ≈ 50–100 k IDR/month (monitored via InfluxDB).
Turning off unused VMs + HDD spin-down keeps the bill sane.


8 · Lessons I wish I’d known earlier

  1. Start small. One reliable box beats a half-finished cluster.
  2. Monitor everything from day one; troubleshooting blind is torture.
  3. Automate power protection—UPS + graceful shutdown scripts save headaches.

9 · What’s next

  • Full Kubernetes cluster experiments.
  • Database replication playgrounds.
  • Hosting an AI stack (Llama et al.) inside the homelab object storage.

10 · Try it yourself

Have an old PC collecting dust? Grab a USB stick, flash Proxmox (or Ubuntu, or UnRAID), and spin up a service you’ve always wanted to self-host. The learning beats any certification course—and you control every byte.

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